Every living entity in this world emits aura naturally. This form of aura is a kind of magnetic field or “Qi” that revolves around our body. It emits information about your mind and your inner personality.
If a person is a kind-hearted person, then this person will emit aura that makes people around him or her to be very relaxed, safe and comfortable. On the other hand, an evil minded person will emit threatening aura and makes people around him or her uncomfortable. Have you came across a situation whereby you feel instant attraction to a stranger that you just get to know. Or you feel fear and shivering to it. All of these are the result of your natural aura detector within yourself. This theory works regardless of appearance or clothing of a person.
Most people don’t really know its existence but naturally, everyone has the ability to feel it. It is a natural ability or instinct for every human being.
People living in modern city especially those with higher corporate position tends to hide their facial expression and emotion. They are good in acting and pretending to hide what are they thinking or any negative plans. Yes, they might be able to hide themselves but not for long. When people around him or her sensed that the facial expression and the aura emitted don’t match, it will only makes the fake-face more obvious.
To me as always, be sincere and appreciate things around you. With this, you will be emitting positive aura straight from your heart naturally. Make it as a norm and you will see a brighter and happier life.
Money, power, and woman are perhaps man best desires. Possessing one of them gave a man the most fascinating fantasy. The feeling is so gratifying till almost no man on earth could resist it. It is powered by man’s most basic of engine, greed. With it, a man loses himself and eventually surrenders its wisdom. In modern society, we can observe lots of these scenarios around our daily life. Cheating, scams, politics in work place, and engaging in indecent act to multiple women.
On the other hand, wisdom gave a man the ability to see thru the great wall of greed and beyond a normal eyes would do. It is a simple concept and yet not easy to attain it. Employing wisdom into our daily life is like revealing a Russian doll. There is another doll inside a doll. Wisdom allows a man to see the effect of an effect in another effect (butterfly effect).
As example in work place, a typical boss would squeeze an employee to his or her maximum strength and sometimes beyond it. A boss with wisdom would allow an employee to take a short nap after lunch so that he or she able to concentrate better on work. Tho, this may sound strange to some people. Every human has a soft point within the heart. A wise person will find out what and where is the soft point or what i call it the ‘dragon energy’ of a human. Once you get hold of it, he or she will be willingly to execute tasks from the heart and perhaps the best output. Social intelligence is a very good example of this.
Learn to gain wisdom. See things from a different perspective. And there shall be world peace that last forever.
WTF! 8 months bonus! Holiday trips to renowned resort! Good company welfare and benefits may be your first triggering point during a discussion with your friends about your employment. You may start to realize how smart or how stupid your boss is. Bosses or employers are the company top managers and leaders who make decisions that are determining the fate of a company. However, not all bosses are great leaders.
Some may think that a boss throwing tantrum or anger with or without any reason to its employee is normal, purely just because they pay your salary. NO, it is not normal. In modern business world, throwing temper, threatening, provoking conflicts or even humiliating employee isn’t in the picture at all. Doing so is no different with injecting venom into the company slowly but deadly. Here’s the different between a smart boss and a stupid boss.
|Creates fears to force employee to work.
||Inspires and motivates employee to strive the best.
|Be quick, do faster!
||Try your best. I am confident that you are able to achieve it. I will be always around to support you.
|Uses plain insincere and repeated keywords such as “thanks”, “thank you”, and “good job”.
||Express sincerely on how he appreciates the work of its employee and with physical rewards.
|Employee == cost
||Employee == company most important assets
|Uses vulgarity in conversation.
|Only productive employees are useful. Others are burden.
||Every employee is important to the company and every employee has its talent. The smart boss will be able to cultivate them.
|Self-centred and self-absorbed.
||Respects employee’s needs.
|Pay peanut but wanted the whole world.
||Money is not a problem. It is how much the employee can strive.
Squeeze you dry and let you die.
Mutual benefits. I help you, you help me.
|Promises are just a game of words.
||Make good promises and always keep promises.
|Scold first, blame later.
||Open communication to help change the way we see the problem first, in order to effectively solve it.
|Red light strategy.
||Green countdown strategy.
|Think he is the smartest and others are dumb.
||Keep learning to better one.
|Like to work longer hours without efficient manner. Work longer hours can earn more?
||Work smart and deliver results within stipulated timeline effectively.
|Employees want to kick the boss from behind when see him from the front.
||Every employee likes to work closely with the boss.
|Likes to compare between employees in front of another. (This is a politically motivated and provoking conflict tactic).
||Respect every employee’s strength and weaknesses.
|Utilizes corporate power to conduct frequent unproductive meetings beyond office hours with subordinates.
||Guide employees to strive and on decision making ability. Only conduct necessary meetings at a suitable time-interval.
|Mixing personal emotion, purpose and private issues in work.
||Displaying professional ethics when making decisions. Clearly differentiating between private and work matters.
|Vengeful against employees.
|Practicing monarchy and authoritarian.
||Practicing democracy and meritocracy.
So which employer you wish to have? It is all within your own decision.